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How to Talk to Women and Get Laid

Sat, 31 Mar 2012 06:42:29 +0100

There's two things men commonly struggle with when it comes to women. 1) talking to them and 2) getting laid. I hope to attempt to solve both of those issues today.

Let's start with the seduction process:

Trying to learn how to seduce women isn't overly complex. Guys often take the more difficult path, if you know what I'm saying. In the last 10 years, men have becoming more and more emasculated. It’s time to grow a pair and start meeting women today.

First, ditch the canned routine. Scripted stuff tends to make men over think things and takl too quickly. Have a framework in your head - and idea about how the conversation might go, but leave it at that. Keep it natural, if you look like you're trying too hard she'll feel it.

Here's a useful resource on how to talk to girls.

Becoming a natural at picking up women can be done with a lot of effort and quite a bit of practice. Side note: REJECTION IS INESCAPABLE - DEAL WITH IT. The idea of picking up and seducing women and never facing rejection is a fable. The more you get rejected the more success you will have.

, stop being so nice. Unfortunately, nice guys are known to finish last. The friend zone is where you'll end up if you play the nice guy card. This is not the place we want to end up. We want to get in her bed. And thus, we're going to reverse the usual process of pick up. We're going to be funny, exciting, a challege and so on. Often your average joe is pretty one dimensional, meaning he never changes things up - it's not exciting to be around him.

Approach anxiety happens to everyone you’re not special. Start approaching one person a day and build up from there. This is a shortcut to decreasing AA. Opening tons and tons of of women in the beginning will get you nothing but a sore ego and a lot of flakes. More harm than good will come out of this and you will be sick of women, rejection and dating before you get started. Begin by approaching a few girls and steadily build up from there.

Dominance amongst other things is a key to being great with girls. Nice guys are submissive. The guy who gets the girl and gets laid is confident and in control. Being sure of yourself is a requirement. Women can see right through you if you "pretend," so don't do it. You need to believe with 100% confidence that you are the man.

When it comes to being confident, another key factor is looking fantastic. If you look terrible there is no way you're going to feel confident? Becoming a fashionista isn't manditory, but taking some time to look good is crucial. Match your belt and your shoes. Wear something that fits you well and that's in style. You don’t have to be trendy by any means. The most important key is to find a brand that fits your style and body.

Guys like to know if looks matter? It's in how you present yourself but yes, looks do matter. Style is more important than being genetically gifted - it's how you look and carry yourself that matters the most. What factors come into play then: are you in shape, are you well dressed, are you hygienic .

Be the second men all over are getting more obese. It not difficult to get in shape if you set your mind to it. Go join the local gym and get your ass in shape, don't do this so much for other people, do it for yourself. There are so many benefits to regular exercise and a good diet, but I won’t waste my time boring you.

Finally, get out there make friends and meet new people. Experience is the best teacher. Your happiness is directly related to the amount of action you take - start taking action.

How to Attract Georgous Women with The Tao of Badass

Mon, 02 Jan 2012 06:10:08 +0100

What’s up guys. Gunna take a second right now and talk about Josh Pellicer's The Tao of Badass. If you haven't heard of this program, keep reading. I've seen many courses, this one's worth looking into further. Josh Pellicer is the author and lists some fairly impressive credentials. Read AttractWomenx's Blog - they've got a greatTao of Badass review found at http://attractwomenx.com/the-tao-of-badass-review.

Who what exactly is The Tao of Badass? Simply put, it's a very structured method for picking up and attracting women. The strategy he lays out is very complete in taking you from introduction to seduction. For those of you who like set routines and examples this may not be the most beneficial book for you.

Gender roles in chapter two is one of my favorite parts of this program. Unlike other dating products, this delves deep into the core of the masculine and feminine role - very powerful. Men and women both play a role, this is the basis, if both play the same role, or a role gets reversed - the relationship won't work. That was just a quick summary - Josh explains very well in the book.

When it comes to picking up and approaching women, if you can completely comprehend what's being said you will not need to use a canned routine or pre-thought of material again. How does that sound?

What else will you find in this product? Body language, confidence, tests, relationships and the most common mistakes men make… just to name a few.

My recommendation is that if you’re serious about changing and improving yourself, give this course a chance and check it out - it might be just what you need.

Get Her Number - Attraction Man Style

Tue, 13 Dec 2011 23:08:49 +0100

When it comes to getting a woman's number guys can be really hesitant. For some reason they just don't ask for it.

What I advocate is putting yourself out there. Showing vulnerability but at the same time not putting too much emphasis on the outcome.

If she's having a great day and you guys just had a fun interesting interaction she'll probably give you her number. You won't need a silly routine or some technique to get it from her - just ask.

The key here again: Have a great interaction. Doing so will practically guarantee you will get the digits without much trouble at all.

If by chance she does say no, don't take it personally. She may have a boyfriend, she may be moving out of the country soon, she may just be visiting. There are a million things going on in peoples lives - if she isn't inclined to give you her number - it's more than likely not even you.

One more thing. Phone numbers is in fact a numbers game. Getting a handful of numbers a week. When you or text to set something up you will notice a good percentage won't get back to you, some others will be busy. This is the game.

We improve our chances by meeting more people and getting more numbers. It's that simple.

Go out there and start collecting those numbers guys.

Attraction Man's Guide to Picking Up Women

Sun, 11 Dec 2011 05:55:16 +0100

Alright, to kick off the blog we're going to focus on the most important aspect when it comes to picking up women. Lets get started.

For those of you who are bewildered when it comes to the subject of picking up and seducing girls I have some very good news for you - there is one thing, that if focused on correctly, will considerably improve your success with women.
While there are many aspects when it comes to women and dating, its often difficult to find a starting point. For most guys, approaching is the first logical step. Guys want to know exactly what to say in order to intrigue women and get their attention. Attraction is the next step on the to know list. There's a common theme here, are you seeing it? They want lines and techniques. However, what they will soon find out is routines and lines won't solve their problem.

I am about to tell you the secret to getting more women in your life: your frame of mind.

Unforunately, if that was a letdown for you, you might not be ready yet. You will be eventually, but until you fully realize that it’s who you are that attracts women and not just lines and techniques, you will not see the level of success you are capable of.

The first mental change we need to make is about being good enough. Most men don’t feel they're good enough.

Beautiful women appear to be completely out of their league. Get this balogna out of you mind right now.
It's difficult at times, but I try and view everyone as equal. I will actually picture myself above everyone else if I need a bost in confidence. Is it egotistical? Perhaps, but I don't treat other people badly because of it and it's able to give me a boost in confidence and energy. To do this I go over in my head all the positive qualities about myself. For example, in my head I may list: my work, friends, perspective on life, intelligence, future goals, and current skills - just to name a couple things. Reminding me of who I am can give me a heightened mental state if I start doubting myself at any point.

Next we look at the idea that even guys who are great with women don't succeed every time. For some strange reason I will encounter guys that think men that are good with women don't get rejected - I am here to tell you that is completely wrong. These guys fail as much and sometimes more than your average joe. Why? Because they put themselves out there. They accept the fact that there is nothing to lose and everything to gain when approaching women and meeting new people. Lack of success is not considered failure, but a learning experience.

Know this by itself is enough to get guys over the hump they're stuck on. My question for you now is, do you think these guys care? After a while interactions are not taken to heart as anything other than a feedback. You’re not scared or nervous, you’re excited about the people you could meet and the relationships you could form.

The final topic I want to touch on is in regards to identity. Things are viewed differently when you have a strong identity. You will be grounded in your beliefs and have a clear idea of what you’ll tolerate and what you won’t. When it comes to picking up and attracting women this is important. Many men will let girls walk all over them. If you are one of the guys who bend over backwards to accommodate women you need to stop. If you stop doing this you will notice a change in how people act around you. Initial resistance may be encountered at first, but eventually people will realize that you aren't a push over.

I want you to take a second and really think about where the foundation of success lies when it comes to attracting women. You will quickly realize it’s not in a magic line or a special routines. It all stems from your confidence and the mindset you posses.

This is just the start when it comes to picking up women, stay tuned.

Nicholas

The Attraction Man Blog

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:23:38 +0100

This is where I will be posting my thoughts, advice, trials and tribulations.

Take a moments to view some of my posts, you may learn a thing or two.

What are we going to be talking about here?

Good question.

The focus is going to be on working to become your best self. I used to spend a lot of time helping guys get girls in the pick up community. Unfortunately a lot of sites and members have very narrow beliefs. Thus, they want routines and tactics for everything. A lot of them don't realize that in order to be successful not just in dating, but in life as well, you need to open your mind and focus on the core of the problem - and make it stronger.

That's where I come in. I help men re-frame their current way of thinking and help them grow, understand and learn. This is amazing for me and I hope to share some of my experiences with you.