Attraction Man

Let's start with the seduction process:

Trying to learn how to seduce women isn't overly complex.  Guys often take the more difficult path, if you know what I'm saying.  In the last 10 years, men have becoming more and more emasculated.  It’s time to grow a pair and start meeting women today.

First, ditch the canned routine.  Scripted stuff tends to make men over think things and takl too quickly.  Have a framework in your head - and idea about how the conversation might go, but leave it at that.  Keep it natural, if you look like you're trying too hard she'll feel it.

Here's a useful resource on how to talk to girls.

Becoming a natural at picking up women can be done with a lot of effort and quite a bit of practice.  Side note: REJECTION IS INESCAPABLE - DEAL WITH IT.  The idea of picking up and seducing women and never facing rejection is a fable.  The more you get rejected the more success you will have.

, stop being so nice.  Unfortunately, nice guys are known to finish last.  The friend zone is where you'll end up if you play the nice guy card.  This is not the place we want to end up.  We want to get in her bed.  And thus, we're going to reverse the usual process of pick up.  We're going to be funny, exciting, a challege and so on.  Often your average joe is pretty one dimensional, meaning he never changes things up - it's not exciting to be around him.

Approach anxiety happens to everyone you’re not special.  Start approaching one person a day and build up from there.  This is a shortcut to decreasing AA.  Opening tons and tons of of women in the beginning will get you nothing but a sore ego and a lot of flakes.  More harm than good will come out of this and you will be sick of women, rejection and dating before you get started.  Begin by approaching a few girls and steadily build up from there.

Dominance amongst other things is a key to being great with girls.  Nice guys are submissive.  The guy who gets the girl and gets laid is confident and in control.  Being sure of yourself is a requirement.  Women can see right through you if you "pretend," so don't do it.  You need to believe with 100% confidence that you are the man.

When it comes to being confident, another key factor is looking fantastic.  If you look terrible there is no way you're going to feel confident?  Becoming a fashionista isn't manditory, but taking some time to look good is crucial.  Match your belt and your shoes.  Wear something that fits you well and that's in style.  You don’t have to be trendy by any means.  The most important key is to find a brand that fits your style and body.

Guys like to know if looks matter?  It's in how you present yourself but yes, looks do matter.  Style is more important than being genetically gifted - it's how you look and carry yourself that matters the most.  What factors come into play then: are you in shape, are you well dressed, are you hygienic .

Be the second men all over are getting more obese. It not difficult to get in shape if you set your mind to it.  Go join the local gym and get your ass in shape, don't do this so much for other people, do it for yourself.  There are so many benefits to regular exercise and a good diet, but I won’t waste my time boring you.

Finally, get out there make friends and meet new people.  Experience is the best teacher.  Your happiness is directly related to the amount of action you take - start taking action.